"Why do you cry?""I missed him so much. I just wanna be with him."
"Then why don't you go to him?"
"He wouldn't let me. He said I must concentrate on my study."
"That is a good advice. He cares for you then."
"But I haven't seen him for so long... I cannot live without him."
"When was the last time you met him?"
"Three or four weeks ago."
".... That is not very long. Both of you still in contact by phone?"
"Yes. But recently we got into a fight. I am so worried."
"Why?"
"He might leave me. I missed him so. I love him so much."
"If he loves you, he will never leaves you. But to be realistic; expect the worst."
"NO, he wouldn't do that to me. He's not like that."
"My dear... people change. And you can never knew the depth of someone's heart."
"I wanna go and see him."
"You are going to see him even though he said you mustn't?"
"I just want to be near him. It is ok if he does not want to see me."
"Do not do something so rash. Think about the other people who love you."
".... but still. I don't want to lose him."
LOVE hurts.
The priorities of your LOVE LIFE (my observation with 20 years of experience)
1. Yourself
2. Your relationship with that significant other.
3. Family.
4. Friends.
It is so sad when somebody would put the relationship first, thus jeopardizing oneself and one's own future.
But it is nice to witness myself the words, 'that true love will conquer it all' is still true.
p.s.
- on top is a real conversation of me with an unnamed friend. Let's hope the best for their relationship. Gambatte my friend! :)